TMI 20 Sep 2011

1. You encounter a good looking lost and frantic tourist looking for the airport. You:
A) Shrug your shoulders, feigning ignorance. Nope.  I will try to help and maybe get lucky in the process.

B) Find the shortest route on your smartphone and get him/her a cab. If the reaction for an offer to give her a lift to the airport is met with distrust.

C) Direct him/her to the nearest bus stop.  Only if the offer for assistance is met with hatred

D) Get your car, pick up him/her luggage and speed to the airport. The way that I would hope it would turn out with the potential of her extending her stay.

2. You’re taking a vacation alone. Your destination:
A) Beach resort — I just want to relax and de-stress. – Always a good choice if alone.  Hopefully find a charming companion at the resort.
B) A group tour — I don’t want to worry about the details. – Only if the females outnumbered the males.
C) Wherever the dart lands on the map. – Probably not…I like to plan my adventures to ensure maximum benefit.
D) Every country with a hostel — my backpack is my home. – A good option for a short vacation

3. Blackout! You can’t watch TV, so you light some candles and:
A) Dig up some batteries and listen to the radio. – Share it with a friend along with a bottle of wine and candle lights.
B) Invite the neighbors, light a fire and sing camping songs all night. – Not too many unless of course they were all unattached female…then party.
C) Find a friend and play games that don’t require electricity. . . Like chess. -  Did you say chess or chest?  More of a touching game is what I would want.
D) Drive to the next town — oh sweet Wi-Fi, I’ve found you! – May drive to another town to spend the evening with a lover…we’ll be too busy to worry about Wi-Fi

4. The man/woman of your dreams has finally proposed. The relationship is perfect, they are everything you’ve ever dreamed of and ever wanted. They are also a multi-millionaire and want you to sign a prenuptial agreement. Which would you do?
A) Sign it – sign it…More interested in the person than possessions.
B) Just not get married - nope

5. If you were going to marry an inanimate object, what would you marry?
Note: A woman has married the Eiffel Tower and another has married the golden gate bridge. Read about it HERE

Yosemite National park.  I have always loved the natural beauty of the landscape and get a natural high from it.

Bonus: You’ve just inherited a manufacturing plant that specializes in plastics. What are you going to make?  Since plastic production is usually done by Plastic Injection Molding, these would already exist.  If I wanted to specialize in other products, I would look at the current market and find an underserved market.  Make the most profits I can so I can then splurge on my lover.

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My Wife Fixes Me Up

Betty and I had numerous hours of arguments (intense discussions) over the next few weeks.  She convinced me that she felt that I was ignoring her during my training and that this was partially my fault.  We agreed to try a new start.  She also said that a part time job would keep her busy and help her not feel so neglected.  She found a part time job at a florist which is something she always wanted to do.  Within just a few weeks, I found that she was having sex with her boss.  She came home after a last minute quickie in his car with his cum still in her.  She couldn’t deny it and the arguments didn’t seem to solve anything. She did promise to stop the sex, but I’m not sure she did.   I buried myself deeper into my training and my son.  

The following Saturday, Betty called and asked that I meet her after work at a bar near her work.  When I got there, Betty was sitting and chatting with a tall brunette.  Betty introduced me to Jan.  Jan was an attractive lady in her mid 20’s, divorced with 1 child, and the girlfriend of Betty’s boss.  We spent several hours just talking and getting to know each other. We drove Jan home and met her roommate Shelly.  Betty told me later that Jan and her boss were swingers and liked to find new partners.  Betty thought that I should get to know Jan better and suggested that I take her out.  Betty was setting me up with another woman.  If this open marriage thing was going to make her happy I figured I go along with it.  I agreed but had some reservations in the back of my mind.

During our dinner date, I found Jan to be a very enjoyable companion.  Her humor was contagious and she had a way about her that made me feel very comfortable.  We talked about everything from our boys to our sex life.  She found out I was very straight and I found out that she was bisexual.  I took her home, but declined her invitation to come in for the evening.  I still couldn’t get my head around what was happening.  I diverted all of my energy into my training.  I was going to be at the top of my class. 

Betty and I didn’t talk much during this time.  I spent a few nights at Jan’s talking to her and Shelly.  It was comfortable with the always present flirting from both girls.  I always made excuses about my lack of interest in doing anything with Jan.  The knowledge of what Betty was probably doing during my visits was always present in my mind and provided fertile grounds for my imagination.  My training was intense and allowed me to bury myself in it to avoid the despair I knew when I stopped and thought about it.

One Friday evening, I got home and found a note from Betty telling me she was going to Tahoe for the weekend.  She had dropped our son was at Jan’s and that Jan would fix dinner for both of us.  It didn’t take long to figure that she would be with him.  Even with everything that had gone on recently, this one made me feel worthless.  All I could think of was going to get my son.  Jan met me wearing just a large apron and was just finishing dinner and getting the kids ready for a bath.  She offered me something to eat, but I was not interested in food but accepted a gin and tonic.  Instead of going home, I watched her bathe the kids and then put them down for the evening. 

She then came to me and hugged me.  When she backed away, she pulled the zipper down on my flight suit and pushed it to the floor.   She then led me into her bedroom, pushed me down onto her bed and removed her apron.  She climbed into the bed and took me into her arms for a long gentle cuddle.  There were no words spoken, just caresses exchanged with each other and gentle kisses given and returned.  Our passion built and soon I rolled her on her back and prepare to enter her.  Once inside her my body rebelled.  Nothing was right.  I did manage to stay inside her long enough to take her through her climax, but it was all mechanical.  I got up and told her I needed to go home, and that I would return tomorrow for my son.  I spent the night alone in my bed trying to understand.

When Betty returned on Sunday afternoon, I gave her an ultimatum. This was to stop immediately or I would file for divorce and file for sole custody of our son.  After hours of discussion, she agreed when it was evident I was serious and willing to give everything I had for my decision.  She promised to shut everything down the next morning.  I never heard from Jan after that.

Everything around our house became very quite.   Betty tried to explain what and why those things happened – she was lonesome.  I buried myself deeper into the training to be the best.  I didn’t want to think about our marriage; hoping it would heal itself.  Then the worst happened.  I blew some answers on a test and dropped to number 2 in my class.  That was not good enough for me.  That night, I committed the worst thing a man could do to a woman.  I know that the resentment of her affairs had built up in me and the fact that I was no longer on top of my class caused me to snap.   But there is no excuse period.  I still can close my eyes and see it unfold around me.  I have never forgotten and I don’t think I will ever forgive myself.  (Betty now says she doesn’t even remember anything like that happening – was it a dream/nightmare?)  Two months later I finished my training number one in the class and elected to take the fighter assignment in SE Asia.  I was going to combat.

TMI 13 Sep 2011

1.     You’re on a speed date. You’ve got 7 minutes with the potential partner. You already know the person’s name. What are the first three questions you would ask?

a.      When was the last time you were in a serious relationship?

b.     On a date with someone you love, would you rather go to a concert, a movie or a walk on the beach?

c.      What are your political views, liberal or conservative?

2.     Have you ever participated in speed dating? Did you get a regular date/second date out of it?

No –  not enough time to get begin to know someone.

3.     Do you participate in online dating? How many dates have you had as a result of online dating sites/matches?

Meeting dates through online dating sites – no.  Dating on line – yes.  Spend hours making love with words to her when I cannot physically be with her. 

4.     You are attracted to:

a. Who people are? Mature, intelligent, open and honest, attractive.
b. What people have? Not interested in their possessions – just the person.
c. What they can do? Being independent – don’t rely on others for help.

5. What “little red flag” will cause you to end a date or immediately decide this person isn’t for you? 

 Talking constantly about their ex.  She is either vindictive or not over him.

6. What do you feel you need to sacrifice or have sacrificed to be a part of a relationship?

I don’t sacrifice anything.  To do so is to change me and lay ground work for hard feelings. I may willing modify things but never sacrifice.

7. If you cooked for your date, what would you cook?

               Sole Bonne Femme – if I know she enjoys fish.  Otherwise a petite steak in wine sauce.

8. At the end of a first date, how would you kiss your date?

a. Press your lips against theirs – The kiss on the cheek may lead to a full kiss if she responds.
b. Gentle kiss on the cheek – always the best way to start a romantic relationship.
c. Lots o’ tongue, like you’re on a tonsil exploration – very unusual, but it the kiss on the lips heats up this is a real possibility leading to more erotic kisses.
d. I don’t kiss on the first date – only if the date is a waste of time

Bonus:  You just put up a profile on a dating site. You must describe yourself in 10 words or less. What are your 10 words?

A mature gentleman dedicated to giving my lover complete satisfaction.


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True Colors Initial Discovery

I spent the next 3 months in the military’s indoctrination program.  The program was advertised to teach the traditions, customs and laws associated with the military while performing physical conditioning in preparation for flight training.  The one thing I didn’t figure out until much later was the core of the training was to teach each person to become self reliant and to educate individuals about their responsibility to the unit as well as themselves.  I became dedicated to achieving the goals at all cost.

After 6 weeks of confinement on base, I had my first opportunity to leave the base and see the local town. Thoughts of Betty kept going back to the camping trip and her visiting other campers.   I knew that her and her family went back twice during the past 6 weeks.  After a few drinks, I went to my hotel room with a hooker.  The worst time of my life, I told her to leave shortly after we consummated the deal.  I had cheated on Betty. 

I made plans to bring Betty down for a visit the next weekend.  We would only have the afternoon and evening of Saturday plus part of the day Sunday.  I intended to make it a memorable time for both of us.  Guilt is a strong emotion and I wanted to kill it.  We ended up staying most of the time we had together making love.  We did go out to eat a few times, but hurried back for more time alone.  The sex was great.  The weekend was too short.  Guilt wouldn’t die. 

I finished the training five weeks later and went back home to get my family ready to move to California for more training.  My father-in-law wanted to spend time at the lake so I could go skiing one last time before starting initial flight training.  Betty and her mother left 2 days early to get everything set up for our long weekend.  I thought it sort of funny since I had only been home 3 days before they left.  Getting real antsy, I decided to leave early Friday instead of waiting for the evening to travel with my father-in-law.  I found the camper and camp site after a bit of searching.  No one was there.  I waited for a while and then walked around hoping to find them.  No luck.  I drove over to the nearest town for lunch and to pick up some beer.  They showed up about 30 minutes after I got the beer on ice.  My thoughts were in turmoil. The next day, I saw a van leave with a bunch of guys I remembered seeing last May.  Betty stayed close to me for the remainder of the 4 days.

The move to my new base was accompanied by the usual tearful farewells, but nothing unusual.  I received word that my class date had been advanced by 2 weeks so our trip had to be hurried.  We could not spend time sightseeing as we had originally planned.  I started school in late September.

Since I was in an earlier class, I did not know anyone.  Fortunately, the military gives you a sense of comradery that allow friendships to develop quickly.  The training was intense so Friday night parties were frequent and tended to be equally intense.  Much drinking, bragging and some mild flirting with other wives and the few single women that showed up.  At one of the parties, one of the wives brought her neighbor along.  Much to my surprise, it was my Joy, my former girlfriend.  I was flabbergasted.  I know I made a fool of myself and upset Betty the entire evening.  During my conversation with Joy, I found that she was married to one of the instructors at the base.  She was very happy and expecting their first child.  A type of disappoint came over me that put me into a funk the remainder of the weekend.

Betty was making friends with some of the wives and spent several days a week in one type or other of a social event for officer’s wives.  Betty and I spent weekends visiting local attractions in the area.  Everything seemed normal to me.  Betty seemed to be happy. After a few months of this fairly regular routine, Betty asked if I would mind if she went up to Tahoe with some of her friends for a Saturday night binge of gambling, drinking and partying.  She didn’t want to worry about our son and asked me to take charge of him for the weekend.  I knew the girls Betty mention and didn’t see a problem.  I needed to catch up on some studying and the promise of a special weekend for just us later helped make the decision easy.  She left Saturday at noon and returned Sunday evening with one of the happiest moods I had seen in quite a few months.

A few weeks later at one of our parties, I was telling one of my friends how much Betty had enjoyed the Tahoe trip and asked if his wife had enjoyed the trip.  He told me that his wife had to cancel due to a kid sick issue, but heard that others had gone.  I asked another friend and he also said his wife had stayed home that weekend.  When I asked Betty about it, she just said some other folks from the class behind mine had joined the trip.  I found out later that the “folks” were two young single officers.  The accommodations were never changed from the original single room.     During the course of several days of arguments, Betty admitted that she had been seeing one of them for about two months using the officer’s wives club as a convenient cover.  It stopped suddenly when a friend of mine reminded this officer that his conduct was severely frowned on by the Air Force and was grounds for dismissal.

TMI 9 August 2011

1. You have been separated from your significant other for six months. An attractive, attentive neighbor has paid you flattering attention. It is obvious he/she wishes to take the relationship further. Do you:
  a. Dismiss him/her, you’re in a committed relationship.
  b. Continue to flirt, but go no further. 

  c. Fantasize about him/her, but take care of your sexual needs solo.
  d. Let the affair become physical.

B is the preference.   However, that has occasionally led to d if the circumstances are right

2. A male co-worker whom you have heard is great in bed and very well endowed has been flirting with you a lot. He obviously wishes to start a relationship. Do you:
(This question is for women AND men).
   a. Make it clear to him you’re not interested.
   b. Flirt with him but go no further
   c. Mentally undress him and wonder what he’d be like in bed.
   d. Let the relationship become sexual.

Definitely a…and I would make sure it was crystal clear.

3. Your significant other is impotent most of the time, showing little interest in you and little interest in being sexual. Do you:
   a. Resign yourself to no sex. 

   b. Satisfy your needs with masturbation
   c. Find someone who can satisfy you sexually but remain with your significant other
   d. Leave him or her

I would start with b for a limited time but at some point, it would have to progress to c.  I can see c causing d to ultimately become the primary answer since based on the wording, the impotency is caused by something other than physical issues.

4. The last time you and your mate had sex, were you:
   a. Concentrating mostly on him/her, and you didn’t even orgasm
   b. Thinking about your pleasure and theirs.
   c. Concentrating mainly on your own pleasure.
   d. Used his/her body as a tool to reach your own orgasm.

Answer a is always my answer.  However, most of the time, by concentrating on her I will ultimately achieve orgasm through her excitement.

5. What kind of partner do you prefer while making love or having sex?
    a. Tender, loving, slow and sweet
    b. I don’t care, just do me; it’s been a while
    c. Tough, take-charge, I like it a little rough
    d. Any lovin’ is good lovin’

A is definitely more satisfying for a loving relationship..  The others are just sex for fun.  All apply at one time or another.

Bonus: Do you mind if your significant other ogles/checks out another sexy person? What if they comment on that person, do you mind that?

Everyone fantasizes.  I'm OK as long as this fantasy stays a fantasy and not a comparison.

Bonus, Bonus: What are your thoughts on the TMI Tuesday image above and the caption beneath it? 
 

She is too clingy; maybe for a reason from his past.  He is a moron. 

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